Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

[好文共赏]喜欢《老友记》的一定要看 ZZ

      4月上班以来，一直很忙。初入职场的种种不适应让大家都行色匆匆，联系不由的就少了。

      又到一年的年底，又到了12月，生日那天收到很多朋友的问候信息，从凌晨到睡觉，手机时不时的震动一下。小小的几个字带来朋友的问候和关心，从初中的，高中的，本科的，研究生的到现在十八摸的，大家在忙碌的时候还惦念着我。我感动了….，在北京，有这群朋友，让我过的很滋润。Thanks Indeed,My Friends!!!

      谢谢了，朋友们！！！

      随后一周，在TT号召下，我们积极的组织大家在新年到来之际聚会了一下。呵呵，一不留神还连着聚了两天。在BBQ大家围着长桌聊着自己工作的种种情形，Lucky还给大家show了全版本的婚纱照，Java同学不但在吃肉上巾帼不让须眉，更是担当起给大家服务的角色，来来回回，水果供应不断。朋友，好久不见。一杯清酒，大块的烤肉，伴随着大家阵阵的笑声。回忆，现在和展望未来的日子。8个月的职场生活，每个人都变了一些。成熟了？也许不是，生活带来的痕迹吧。我们还不一定成熟，我们还在不停的学习，不停的进步，不停的为了自己的career每天在忙碌着。没有显赫的背景，唯有努力成了我和朋友们的制胜之道。胜利？还远着呐。努力够了，自然有好果子吃滴。嘿嘿

      昨天下午突然被XP叫去踢球，好久没在这么大的场地玩儿了。玩的很开心。跑的也很舒服。YC楼下的五人制球场实在小的太没意思了。晚上跑到guangzi家杀人，一帮人杀到12点多，楼下大妈终于忍不住了。来砸门，光子以:我们都是文化人，您说一句我们就记住了。把大妈忽悠走了。不过，就光子的秉性，估计被赶走也就是时间的问题。再去杀几次，让他搬家。呵呵。

       最近的文字，流水帐的成分很大。看客们不要骂我。blog本来也是写给自己记录心情滴。呵呵

       今天平安夜，Merry X’mas,My Friends,Everyone!

Habit 1: Be Proactive

It’s not what people do to us that hurt us. In the most fundamental sense it is our chosen response to what they do to us that hurt us.-Stephen Covery

We are free to use the space between stimulus and response to make choices that best reflect our values.

Stimulusç==èResponse

Reactive people don’t acknowledge the space between stimulus and response. They make choices based on moods, feelings and circumstances.

Reactive people blame their attitude and behavior on things they can’t control. They respond to stimulus.

Relationships are built by action (love, the verb) before emotion (love, the feeling).Love means serving, sacrificing and contributing. Proactive people build relationships through love acts, then they feel love (the emotion).

We can choose replace negative behaviors with positive one instead of transmitting the negative behaviors to others.

“Happiness doesn’t mean everything is perfect. It just means you have decided to look beyond the imperfections.”

Habit2: Begin with the End in Mind

All things are created twice, first mentally, then physically.

For example: Hold a Meeting, Define purpose of meeting first. Enable attendees to focus on and meet the intended goals and objectives.

Habit3: Put First Things First

Importance

Urgent

时间：周一

地点：莲花山，顺义。

人物：Team

事件：第一次滑雪

内容：

初级道冲了两次，跟ShaoWen同学讨教了如何控制速度。1小时候跑到中级道玩。轮滑的基础对滑雪还是有帮助的。一个上午没摔跤，大大出乎我的意料。中午的时候，喝点水就又跑去过瘾。在一次试图做小回转的过程，重摔了一下。2点多，在ChenNing的鼓捣下跑去高级道的一半滑。上去才发现，根本就是看不到前面下去的人。吓的够呛。WangXin同学告诉我，冲就行了，没事。于是乎，果然在几个不成功的回转后。冲下高坡。呵呵。过瘾。